You know, give them comfort because it is hard being a black man. Black men reject intelligent black women and go with young girls who look up to them. Patrick, a local hero among south London lads, believes that men who womanise are victims of circumstance and of wily women who know exactly how to exert power using their sexuality: 'There is a lot of animosity between black men and black women today. They want their BMW man who will come home bringing flowers, a happy-ever-after life. There was, said a weary Victor, the problem of the new black woman who no longer indulges men like him: 'They're changing, man.
